Candice: Does anyone find the multiple forms of communication out there a little over whelming? I’ve found recently that I am struggling to deal with the number of ways people can contact me. Currently I have:
- a Linkedin account
- Two business email accounts – for my company
- One work email account – for where I am currently working
- a Twitter account
- a Facebook account
- Home Phone
Writing it all out like that makes you realise just how many ways there are to be contacted or get in touch. Help, I’m drowning in over communication.
Obviously I have a Blackberry to keep an eye on my personal stuff but have taken to emailing friends and family from work as I seem to be constantly keeping up with things – ‘have you answered that text/email?’ I get home from work and that last thing I want to do is answer the phone or log on. And then, of course, there are the blog posts to maintain. It’s hard because I am still maintaining my business while working this contract, as well as trying to keep my Twitter and Facebook life active (as marketing experiment as much as anything else) and keeping an eye on extra’s working coming through, ’cause if you dont jump on it quick you don’t get the job!
The other half even said to me earlier – I have to get BBM as my friend in Dubai only uses that else I cant keep in touch with him. WHAT!
Phil and I have recently had some feedback on our short story submission (more details to follow soon) and I read that straight away, thus putting a damper on an afternoon when they didn’t tell me we were the next JK Rowling. If I hadnt jumped to that email there and there I might not have ruined my afternoon!
So I’ve decided to take a bit of a sabbatical from the bleeping red light on my phone. They used to be called ‘crackberries’ and I can see why. I also read somewhere that we are now struggling with a syndrome where we actually feel ill if we can’t look at an incoming message or text. I know the feeling, I got one during dinner last night and you are itching to read it while eating your dinner. How sad is that.
So I’ve decided when it comes to my personal emails that I am going to be checking them less often, lunch breaks and convenient times not all the time. Twitter, well that’s more addictive than Facebook so I am dialling that down for a while too, else I seem to spend most of my evenings retweeting things. The pull comes when someone answers your question – I find that little blue bird more addictive than the bleep or a text.
It’s all about self control I think, teaching yourself not to reach for the phone every time it makes a noise or the light flashes. Otherwise, one will go slightly insane!
As the American’s say ‘Timeout’
How do you find it in the modern age?